HAVING JUST ONE SUB?
When Jacob asked if I wanted to be his sub, I said no. I really wanted to be his sub. But I couldn't stand him having another sub. I would have been too jealous.
So I said I would be his girlfriend. I was the most submissive girlfriend anyone could ask for. But I just couldn't share him.
One of my own subs started me on this idea. He mentioned that he wanted to be my only sub. That wasn't exactly practical. And it wasn't how I thought of things. BUT, then I started to see his point of view.
It was peaceful to have only one sub. At the time I was trying to get the pieces of my life in place, and I decided that one of my pieces was having one loyal sub.
He left and I got another sub. This time, I had no intentions of having a second sub. I felt bad for the people who needed dominants. But my life worked best with just one sub. And having just one sub is more intimate.
Hmmm. No answers here. Just a different path to think about.